Gary : September 1, 2018 12:37 pm : blog

There are stylish people everywhere.


I have never seen a man wear a yoga outfit quite like the outfit this man is wearing. If you want to stand out, stand apart, and be noticed wear a yoga outfit like this one. Gary Smolker, Fashion Blogger

I guarantee all the beautiful women doing yoga in the yoga studio will NOTICE YOU, if you wear this yoga outfit while doing yoga with them.

DRESS FOR SUCCESS. Make a lasting impression. Appearance, style, glitz and glamor are important. For more guidance – stay tuned.

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How To Do Nothing (with style!) What Life Is About-

Gary : August 29, 2018 6:56 am : blog

I am having wonderful conversations with interesting people. At dinner tonight Ronaldo – a complete stranger in my life until three days ago – and I discussed HOW TO DO NOTHING WITH STYLE. Brazil is the land of happy music, bright colors and women wearing bikinis at the beach, at swimming pools, wherever they are wearing clothes while they are sunbathing.

HAVING STYLE IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT. Good conversation makes food taste better. At dinner tonight, Ronaldo and I discussed how to do NOTHING with style. There are many ways to do nothing.

COMMENT: Doing “nothing” nothing with style takes the knowledge one gains through slow practice – analyzing and correcting mistakes as you go along. It takes about ten years of concentrated practice to achieve world class skill at doing nothing with style.

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White Teeth & Brazil’s Great Deals

Gary : August 27, 2018 7:02 am : blog

A young cosmetic dentist I know inspired me by his curiosity to post that. Like many ambitious people he is a lifetime student. Like many “coaches” I get great joy from SHOWING people how to do things. That is why I am a passionate person.

IT iS NOT IMPOSSIBLE TO HAVE TEETH THIS WHITE! WOMEN: Be exciting. If you have white teeth like those teeth shown in this photo (and you can) all the women who see you smile and all the women who see you eat a strawberry will ask/beg you to tell them how you got/keep your teeth so WHITE.

MEN: Give that special woman in your life a special gift, a gift that will make her more sparkly and even more beautiful, more content, more relaxed and more easy going and even more pleasant to be with. Give her a set of veneers placed on her teeth by a dentist @dra.claudiadiniz @abilityodontologia with excellent high performance technique who is an artist and lover of beauty with practical dental/cosmetic dentistry-experience and know how.

BRAZIL CONNECTION: Photo of veneers installed by a beautiful Brazilian-lady dentist I know who practices cosmetic dentistry near the Amazon River in Brazil, a five hour flight from Miami. Changes/prices for dental work by highly educated dentist practicing cosmetic dentistry in Brazil are significantly less than in US.

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Tranquility Sharpens The Mind, Gentlemen . . .

Gary : August 23, 2018 10:31 am : blog

Achieving/reaching a state of TRANQUILITY has sharpened my perceptions. Bottom line: People who are not passionately motivated about what they are doing will not be capable of putting forth the effort to achieve greatness. They have already lost the race before the starting gun has been shot.

They are the living dead.Brazil is FULL OF LIFE, happy colorful samba music.

Comparatively speaking. Los Angeles, albeit the Fashion capitol of the world and the entertainment capitol of the world, is DEAD, a ghost town filled with wannabes, full of directionless people who don’t have a clue and insecurity.


REENERGIZE. Brazil is going to be the next leading country in the world. Compare San Francisco which smells of urine with São Paulo where beautiful publicly displayed art literally abounds. Where the artist are is where the future will be.

PHOTO AT TOP is of my poolside lunch today (grilled fish, coconut rice and lightly cooked colorful mixed vegetables) at the Txai Resort Hotel at Itacare Beach.

PERSONAL NOTE: I am taking advantage of the opportunity I gave myself to do “nothing” but enjoy nature, wander while going slow and to take hours eating meals slowly — for 28 days. For dessert I had two artisan sorbets created with local fruits and the sugar of those fruits. My lunch took two hours to consume.

ASIDE: Of course, there was no reason to rush. While slowing eating each morsel of my lunch I enjoyed looking at the panorama of gorgeous women in colorful bikinis surrounding me at the swimming pool. Although it is winter here in Brazil, the weather is perfect bikini wearing weather. Each woman I saw at the swimming pool was wearing a different bright happy colored colorful bikini.

COMMENT: Life is a fashion show. There is no reason to be in a hurry or to be dull, bored, or boring. ADVICE: It is superlatively peaceful here.

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Yes, Restroom Style Is Very Important To Women

Gary : August 22, 2018 10:03 am : blog
Women care deeply about bathrooms.
This hotel has wonderful public restrooms, each public restroom is designed and decorated differently than all the others. If a man really likes a woman he should take her on holiday to this resort JUST to be considerate.
This hotel has many other features that make it visually delightful. Many professional wealthy men have no concept Of luxury.
Luxury is very simply
BEAUTY – beautiful happy joyful colors, beautiful color combinations, beautiful design.
An understanding of LUXURY can be expressed as simply as placing a beautiful simple floral display in a simple vase on a table in an outside patio.

PERSONAL OBSERVATION. This hotel is a wonderful place to relax, to connect to beauty. Here, and in many other places, I see how grateful I should be for life. — There is always beauty here. To see beauty is “free.”

This Hotel is designed to give people the opportunity to do nothing:

(1) to enjoy nature, and

(2) to be integrated with nature.

PHOTO: I took this collage of photos of a sink wash basin, the counter the basin is placed in, and of flowers in a vase and of the mirror above the sink. That is a reflection of me taking photos in the mirror. I washed my hands in that sink basin in the the wash room section before going to the restaurant in this hotel to eat lunch.

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Social Fitness – Challenging Your Brain With Life’s Finest

Gary : August 21, 2018 10:15 am : blog

At the hotel my daughter Leah and I are staying at – at this moment – during our 28 Day cuisine adventure – we are at the swimming pool; a man is walking around the swimming pool with sticks (see photo) containing slices of Mellon and pineapple and grapes that he hands out to anyone who would like one.I took one. — the fruit on it was refreshing and tasted good.

WINTER. It is winter here in Brazil at the moment. But the weather here is perfect swimming pool weather, perfect temperature for swimming, perfect weather for wearing a bikini, etc.

PERSONAL COMMENT: if I wasn’t so shy I would ask women wearing bikinis at the swimming pool for permission to take their photographs and to post the photographs I took of them on Instagram

ADVICE: I need to go to SHYNESS SCHOOL to learn how to get over my shyness – after all, experiments have found that situations in which people are forced to adapt and to attune themselves to new challenges(I.e., make errors and pay attention) tend to increase cognitive ability and also prevents onset of Alzheimer’s.

TAKEAWAY: The brain grows when it is challenged.

ADVICE NUMBER TWO: I could immediate tell the Belmond Hotel is a FIVE STAR HOTEL by being surrounded by luxury elements in every place in the hotel. ASIDE: This is the first hotel I’ve stayed in that hands out slices of fresh fruit to everyone at its outdoor swimming pool.

PERSONAL NOTE: I don’t have sons. I have three daughters. My youngest daughter, Leah just left the swimming pool where she had been swimming to go to a 2:00 p.m. nail appointment. Women must get their nails done, even when they are on vacation. Getting their nails done is an inherent part of their femininity.


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Why Women Are Naked Without The Right Accessories

Gary : August 17, 2018 11:58 am : blog

Look at her nails. All over the world, women pay attention to the appearance of their nails. All over the world women pay attention to their appearance; all over the world women want to look good.

ADVICE TO MEN: Women like bracelets; women like rings; women like jewelry.

COMMENT: She needs a sharp pair of earrings because she looks naked without earrings.

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Cultivate Your Creativity- Don’t Be Shackled By What You Already Know

Gary : August 3, 2018 11:32 am : blog

MEAT EATING LOVERS VS. VEGAN LOVERS: True or false: Vegansmake better lovers?

I have not tested this theory?

THE SMELL TEST: What you Eat will determine how your breath smells and how your skin smells.

I learned while preparing for my upcoming trip to Peru and Brazil that what you eat causes your body to produce volatile chemicals that are released into the air – these airborne chemicals either attract mosquitoes to you or repel mosquitoes away from you depending on what you have eaten.

ASIDE: The woman who is wearing this shirt will be taking care of my orchid plants while I am traveling in Peruand Brazil this summer and she is a fabulous cook. (Her husband is a carnivore.) I dropped my orchid plants off at her house tonight (Wednesday August 2, 2018). She and her husband treated me to a wonderful homemade dinner. He barbecued Meat for an entree and she prepared a variety of dishes including Vietnamese Spring Rolls.

After dinner, I asked both of them (privately) whether vegans make better lovers. I leave for Peru on Monday(Aug 6, 2018).

See video of her garden posted on Instagram @garyspassion.

FOOD FACTS: There is an art and science to pairing common ingredients to create extraordinary dishes.

MOLECULAR GASTRONOMY: Each ingredient has a complex network of chemical structures that give each ingredient its own unique flavor. These compounds are responsible for 80 percent of what we perceive when we take a bite or sip. A simple ingredient like lettuce has about twenty such compound.

Coffee has nearly 1,000. When it comes to enjoying food, our sense of taste would be nothing without our sense of smell. Test that for yourself. Next time you sip your coffee, pinch your nose closed and see if it doesn’t taste like warm, slightly bitter water. Without your nose to sense hundreds of volatile compounds (called aromatic compounds), coffee – or any substance – becomes nearly flavorless.

Think about how much the aroma of burgers on a grill tell you about the food’s flavor … as the scent wafts through the summer air … even if you are sitting far away from it.

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Relationships: “A Beneficial Purpose”

Gary : July 23, 2018 1:32 am : blog

Once upon a time, corporations in Europe and then in the United States were given their charters by the government to carry out specific endeavors meant to enhance the common good.

Status as a corporationwould give the proprietors special protection against personal liability as well as the ability to pool resources and manpower that could not easily be achieved by an individual proprietorship.

QUESTION: What would personal relationships be like TODAY if people specified “beneficial PURPOSE” they have in mind clearly at the beginning of their relationship?

Gary Smolker,
FashionBlogger, World Traveler and Trial Attorney.

PHOTO ABOVE of two people who appear to be authentically enjoying each other without fakery manipulation self-aggrandizement or hidden agenda.

HISTORICAL NOTE: Corporate charters today are handed out to anyone who asks, without the founders having to justifytheir need for this special status by specifying their beneficial purpose. Today people treat each other – treat their boyfriend and their girlfriend, and treat their husband and treat their wife – as if they were/are COMMODITIES.

In “HIP” cities like San Francisco male-female relationships are short-term; there are more pet dogs than children. People have a longer lasting relationship with their pet than with their significant other.

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NATURAL BEAUTY- Grace in the modern world

Gary : July 18, 2018 1:39 am : blog

She (ALEXA) is absolutely beautiful, friendly, calm, centered, kind, gracious, wholesome and shy. She refines and restyles high performance automobiles.

Some of the automobiles brought to her to restyle were purchased by someone for a base price of $850,000 or more before being brought to Alexa for restyling.

Stylish shy womencan’t help glowing. They are naturals who they can’t stop expressing their creativityand emitting good vibes.

NATURAL BEAUTIES emit good vibes and glow. ADVICE: High style women have style. It is a core part of their being.

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Gary : July 8, 2018 5:28 am : blog

Positive vibes are everything. An enlightened person changes when he or she receives new information/vibes that changes his/her understanding and/or his/her point of view.

PAY ATTENTION TO THE VIBES people emit. Understand how women and men see/think and understand things and how they communicate verbally, nonverbally, and by their tone, by their vibes and by their focus.

ADVICE TO MEN: Try not to assume anything. However it is probably safe to assume the woman who just got her nails done like the nail treatment shown does not intend to wash the dishes after dinner tonight. If in doubt, ask. MEN WAKE UP. LOOK at your special woman’s nailtreatment. The woman who had her nails done like this is sending a signal. ADVICE TO MEN AND WOMEN: The relationshipbetween two people more than anything else determines their ability to achieve results.

HUMAN RELATIONSHIP IS NOTHING OTHER THAN ATTUNEMENT. Be “attuned.” Constantly strive to be attuned.

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Gary : July 4, 2018 5:25 am : blog

Today I asked two friends (a man and a woman) “Why do women get boob jobs?”

The man replied: “I never met a woman who was happy with the size of her breasts. Everyone of them wished they were smaller or larger than what they were. One woman had breasts just like the famous Venus in the Louvre and she told me that nobody had ever told her she had attractive breasts and she didn’t believe me about the statute until we went to the Louvre.” The woman replied:

Women got liberated and then bought into the idea women were supposed to look like the centerfold of PLAYBOY magazine.

“Nobody has a boob job in Europe.” She also told me that before women start caring about boys they have fun riding their bicycles but after they start caring about boys they start trying to compete, then life stops being fun.

Being an adult is fun. Being an adult is contagious. The smart men I know care more about whether a woman smiles than the size of her breasts.

ADVICE: The women in this photo have beautiful smiles and are beautiful people. That is what counts. SUCCESS IS BEING ABLE TO SMILE. There is nothing more pleasant than being around cheerful happy lively, intelligent, mature, gracious good-natured, compassionate, helpfull, smiling people.

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The Five Second Rule to Prevent Sexual Harassment

Gary : June 19, 2018 2:26 pm : blog, Uncategorized


WARNING. Enact a rule/law that makes it sexual harassment for a man to look at a woman for five seconds or longer. If there is a rule/law that states it is sexual harassment for a man to look at a woman for more than five seconds, women wearing the nails shown … will cause many men to break that rule. Gary Smolker, Fashion Blogger.

CALL TO ACTION: Fashion advocates unite. Unite against the effort being made to illegalize (criminalize) sexual attractiveness.

SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS NATURAL AND NORMAL. A healthy heterosexual man who sees an attractive woman is going to look at her for more than five seconds. Penalizing a man for breaking the 5 second rule for looking at a woman with those nails for more than five seconds would be like penalizing a man for sneezing. The “don’t look at a woman for more than five second” rule is equivalent to making it against the law for a man to sneeze.

At lunch today I was told that Netflix has enacted a five second rule to prevent sexual harassment in the workplace. For the sake of the men working at Netflix, if there is a rule at Netflix that looking at a woman for five seconds is sexual harassment, I hope none of the women working st Netflix wear nails like those shown above while they are in the workplace.

COMMENT: The civilized world has trouble dealing with human sexuality. QUERY: Has the social mores pendulum swung back from sexual freedom back to Puritanism? Will everyone soon be wearing Burkas FASHION ADVOCATES UNITE AGAINST EFFORTS TO CRIMINALIZE SEXUAL ATTRACTIVENESS BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!

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Colors & Shapes Can Seduce The Eye And The Mind.

Gary : June 10, 2018 12:25 pm : blog, Uncategorized


Example: There are many exact artistically perfect proportions and precisely right combinations of colors and shapes in fine cuisine.

That is one of the many reasons fine cuisine is fine cuisine.

ABOVE IS A PHOTO of fine cuisine — a photo of a colorful dish served at a popular world famous restaurant in South America. – If I remember correctly, you need to make reservations at least three months in advance to get a table there.

PSYCHOLOGICAL COMMENT: Men and women live in colors. Colors effect mood. Men and women react emotionally to colors. That is why that dish looks so stunning.

>*ADVICE TO WOMEN: Men react emotionally to complexity. Men know by intuition and by experience that Complex, Bright, Quick Decision Making, Strong, Spiritual, Sensitive, Intelligent, Lively, Colorful, Independent Thinking, Healthy, Generous, Fun to Be With Women add much welcome color and pleasant excitement to life.


*ADVICE TO MEN.: Women compete with one another for prestige. That is why they carry expensivehigh fashion designer handbags.

ADVISORY CONCLUSION: COLORFUL ART CONQUERS AND SEDUCES. Before I knew what it was, seeing that dish made my mouth water. I’ve had similar experiences with women.

PRECAUTIONARY ADVICE TO MEN AND WOMEN: Testosterone is not your friend. All that glitters is not gold.

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Gary : June 1, 2018 2:19 pm : blog

The most active thing that a man can do is not simply to do something but to dedicate himself to doing it

PERSONAL NOTE: I love flowers, fast cars, fashion, style, glamor and women who know how to dress be fun and behave themselves. PHILOSOPHICAL OBSERVATION: Life is a space of time in which there is imposed upon us a long series of unavoidable necessities, which we must face unless we are to succumb.

QUERY: Life is brief and urgent. Does she need a mani-pedi? If so, she should go to LAQUE in North Hollywood, California. Does she need her hair styled? If so she should go to … blah blah blah.
Mystery Sells: Humans are essentially an exploratory species. The natural tendencies of the species is to explore and investigate the world around it.

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