The Inner Meaning of A Woman’s Shoes

Gary Smolker : September 9, 2016 7:55 pm : blog

PERSONHOOD

Women use shoes to construct a concrete and particular personhood.

A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN

A man looks in a woman’s closet and sees 20 black shoes.

A woman looks in her closet and sees 20 shoes that are black.

 

MEN ARE CLUELESS ABOUT WOMEN, CLUELESS ABOUT HOW WOMEN THINK AND CLUELESS ABOUT WHY WOMEN DO WHAT THEY DO

The other day, a wealthy friend told me:

“My wife buys a pair of shoes a week, mostly boots.

“Most of them she doesn’t wear because they hurt her feet.

“But they didn’t hurt her feet when she tried them on.”

A high society lady told me:

“My husband has no interest in shoes.

“I have never heard a man show interest in shoes.

“Clarification:  The only men I have known who have an interest in women’s shoes are the usually gay men who sell them! and the husbands who cannot understand why women are willing to spend thousands of dollars on what appears to them to be the same pair of black shoes!

“I know all about shoes as do most women, Chanel, Chloe, Prada -starting at $500 – $600 are some of my favorites.”

A high style woman told me:

“Shoes make the (wo)man.”

In reply to the above comments a friend sent me the following note:

“Send shoes on Valentines Day instead of whatever and wait for the man with the butterfly net to pick you up.

“Trust men women love diamonds more than shoes.”

MEN, WAKE UP!  STOP BEING CLUELESS!  THE SHOES A WOMAN WEARS ARE SENDING YOU A MESSAGE.

The shoes a woman wears sends a cascade of information to you that intersects and interacts with diverse environmental clues and chance and will effect diverse outcomes in your life. more »

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It Is Important to Understand Women

Gary Smolker : September 3, 2016 5:28 pm : blog

YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THEM

Men: It is important that you understand women.

I have asked a multitude of women:

[A] “Is it true that the most important things in a woman’s life are (1) her children, (2) her husband and (3) her shoes?”  [B]Is it true that many women would be willing to give up their husband before they gave up their shoes?”

Without exception, every one of the women answered, “You left out purses.  Purses are important too.”

IT IS IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND THEM AND MORE IMPORTANT TO PLEASE THEM

To please them you have to give them REAL attention; attention that comes from the heart.

ARE WOMEN’S SHOES EXPENSIVE?

A woman can spend $4,500 for a pair of Fendi sandals, a clutch and a purse.  See photo below of such an ensemble.

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Sandals: $1,100.00

Purse:  $2,200.00

Hand bag clutch:  $1,100.00

THINK OF WOMEN’S SHOES AS OBJECTS OF ART AND NORDSTROM AS AN ART GALLERY

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I took the photographs displayed below in the “Women’s Shoe Department” of the Nordstrom store in the Westfield Topanga Shopping Mall, in Canoga Park, California, a few weeks ago

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It’s All About The Shoes- Part 1: Why do women wear high heels and why is it that women wearing high heels are so sexy and alluring?

Gary Smolker : August 25, 2016 4:33 am : blog

“Life is a pitch.”

High heels are sexy.

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At lunch yesterday, a friend and I discussed the question: “WHY ARE WOMEN WEARING HIGH HEELS SO SEXY?

We couldn’t come up with an answer.

After lunch I sent that question (via email) to a bunch of my friends, along with the following additional questions:

  1. Why are certain styles and heights of High Heels more sexy than others?
  2. What is more sexy: High Heels or Knee High Boots?
  3. Does the allure/sexiness of high heels or knee high boots have anything to do with the Fibonacci Sequence?
  4. Is there a mathematical formula that determines the beauty of a woman in a particular pair of shoes?
  5. When a woman wearing a particular pair of shoes turns herself on or a man on by wearing that pair of shoes, what is going on mathematically, psychologically and/or physiologically?

The next day I received the following intellectually tantalizing replies.

Women and Men Are Turned On by the High Heel Shoes Women Wear more »

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How Important Are Women’s Shoes to Women?

Gary Smolker : August 23, 2016 6:03 am : blog

Lessons Learned from Experience

I recently asked some of my men friends, “How important are women’s shoes to women?”

One replied:

“I can tell you from my life experiences that women in every level of society from the 1% to the bottom of the pile think and care about shoes if even beyond their reach.”

Another friend replied:

“I told my wife if a cop shoots me, loot a store.  She asked, ‘Which store?’  I thought about it and told her the Grange hardware store.  She retorted that she would loot a shoe store instead.”

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The Birds and Bees, Sex Appeal, Sexy Women & Phallic Symbols

Gary Smolker : August 22, 2016 6:01 am : blog

Sex Starved Men and Women See Phallic Symbols Everywhere

Some people see phallic symbols when they look at sand castles built at the beach.

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Some men see phallic symbols everywhere.

That is why women wearing high heels are so appealing to them.

Some Women Like High High Heels Even Though It Is Very Painful to Wear Them

It is very painful to wear high heels.

However, women believe high heeled shoes, like those pictured below, are very “sexy” , very alluring.

Women believe high heeled shoes make them more sexily appealing to men.

That is why they wear them.

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I REPEAT: Women think high heels make them look sexy.

I agree: High heel shoes do make women look sexy.

See three pictures below: high heeled shoes modeled by my good friend hypnotherapist Femme Fatale.

 

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Six Inch High Stilettos

A pregnant woman recently told me she owns 200 six inch stilettos.

A “Stiletto” is a style of high heel woman’s shoe.

A six inch stiletto is a high heel woman’s shoe with a six inch heel.

She told me:  “The worse thing about being seven months pregnant is that I can’t wear any of my six inch stilettos because it would hurt too much if I did.”

The Birds and the Bees

Everyone has an ideal person in mind before a relationship begins.

ON ONE HAND: Sexual attraction is nature’s way of provoking men to introduce themselves to women.

ON THE OTHER HAND: All relationships women begin start with a woman’s guess that the man they are introducing themselves to (and getting to know or willing to get to know) is their kind of man, the ‘ideal’ man they want to meet at the moment.

Growing up is a process.

It takes time.

 

Gary S. Smolker, fashion blogger

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A Walk on the Beach at Sunset Before Going Out to Dinner

Gary Smolker : August 21, 2016 3:27 am : blog

Dining Out Shoes and Walking on the Beach Shoes

I had a wonderful dinner with my good friend Femme Fatale last night, August 19, 2016.

Our plan was to go for a walk on the beach at sunset and then out to dinner – the beach in front of the “The Sunset” Restaurant in Malibu, California at Point Dume.

Femme Fatale knew I was launching a fashion blog on “what men need to know about women’s shoes” and offered to model the shoes she would be wearing when I arrived at her home to go out to dinner and for a walk on the beach.

Below are photos of the four shoes Femme Fatale modeled for me.

Going out to dinner shoes:

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Walking on the beach at Sunset shoes.

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Femme Fatale advised me that the Bebe Shoes (pictured above) were way to expensive for her budget, to buy for herself.

However, one day she walked into the Bebe store in the Topanga  Westfield Mall and found them on sale for a fraction of the price they were before they were put on sale.

I forgot the prices she told me.  Perhaps the prices were: Original Price $150, Sales Price $30 dollars.

Guys’ Takeaway:

  1. Women love shoes.
  2. If your girl-friend or wife can wait, the original price of the very expensive priced shoes she “loves”/wants may be drastically reduced when the shoe she loves is put on sale.
  3. That is the budget conscious time to buy her those shoes.

A Romantic Dinner

It is very romantic to walk on the beach at sunset before going out to dinner. more »

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